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What should a lady do? Things A Girl/Lady Should Do (Now)


What should I do now as a lady? Below are few tips to serve as guide.

i. Psychologically; mentally, how are you?
Psychology is a way a person thinks as so the study of the mind. It is extremely important to protect your mental or psychological health. Always important, because the moment you lose it, you lose almost everything. This article is not to teach how to protect, preserve and keep your mental health sane but anything or anyone that is toxic, draining you or manipulative, should be cut off. For the peace of your health no matter what people say. Remember, talk is cheap.

ii. Psychosexually; which is referring to the emotional, mental and behavioral aspects of sexual development. The emotional and mental attitudes related to sexual activities. Woman! Girl! YOU ARE PRICELESS. So if anything doesn't interest you sexually,  be bold to say NO. You can be made fun off, but trust, you'd rather have your peace of mind in a secured sexual relationship than one that is forced or persuaded. Be emotionally and mentally ready for anything sexual related.

 iii. Physical; it is true appearance is not all, but you wouldn't want to come out musty and and unkempt.  Keeping your physical health is a key to keeping your mental health also. So take time to shave, bath, nails done, hair and teeth neatly. Your appearance should speak of you. Research states that keeping yourself hygienic can and cures low self esteem and depression.

iv. Spend your time with people that bring out the best in you;
You deserve to be happy at all times, if you find that happiness being by yourself,  then spend modt times by yourself, if there are certain people that make you happy, spend time with them. It is always necessary to be happy and be at youd best at all times. However, people can leave, so enjoy your company also. So when they do, you have yourself.

v. Relationship; are you in a relationship or courtship with someone? If you are old enough, then it is valid to know your interest in what type of person you want a relationship with, a male or a female. Whichever it is, good luck. This is the time to start build on yourselves before the marriage bells rings.

vi. Don't be too hard on yourself; Society can be demanding. "Get married," "make babies you're getting old," "women don't do that, only men do" and so on. But remember, this society that yells about what to do to please them will not stick out for you, when you get married to the wrong person, have complications during childbirth and will still judge you when you protect yourselves from all these. This is just proving that, be you. Society will talk anyways but while they're talking, be yourself and be happy. If you think you look beautiful with or without makeup.  Just do you, whatever it is.

vii. Be comfortable; this is referring to a whole lot. Do not rush into a relationship because others are, do not show parts of your body because people are. Just be comfortable wherever you are but thrive for bigger accomplishments if you so wish. If changing your hair colour makes you comfortable, do it. Be comfortable in your own skin, everybody can't be alike. Everyone is different.

viii. Sex life; do as you believe. But whatever you do, don't forget the consequences.

ix. Pray and meditate; prayer never fails. Always pray, no matter the situation. Whenever you're in a situation, remember you're not going through it alone. Others have and have survived, so can you. And forever remember that when you pray, be at peace because the Bible said we should pray whatever the situation and not worry. Let your faith grow continually. Prayer is the key.


X. Check your circle and do what is best for you. Beware of those who ride for you and the disloyal ones. Be careful who you tell your plans and problems.


Feel free to leave your questions, experiences and comments below, let's get interactive.




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